The Advantage
A 12-week online group coaching programme for men ready to overcome sexual dissatisfaction, build deeper intimacy, explore sustained sexual arousal and unlock embodied pleasure.
With Men's Sex Coach Sian Johnson
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What You'll Learn
Course Format
What Makes This different?
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I’m messaging you nearly a year from when we last met. I wanted to take the opportunity to extend my gratitude to you for the work we undertook together – it was foundational in my journey and the changes have been life changing in my relationships with self and others. The journey continues for myself and I have had the opportunity to undertake further learnings and courses in my development. I hope one day we can work together again.
Sian is one of the very best tantra teachers I have been to. She is friendly, accepting and helpful. She has increased my capacity to experience pleasure enormously. She listens and teaches me what I need. She has a wealth of knowledge and techniques that are so beneficial and pleasurable. She has shown me new kinds of touch that have enhanced my sensual pleasure. Every session includes new learning. What she has taught me has significantly changed my mood, my happiness, and my enjoyment of life. I highly recommend Sian. I wish all humans could learn to experience such joy and pleasure. I also realise people can learn new ways to experience pleasure at any age!
I received a warm welcome, was listened to and went at a pace I was comfortable with. I learned so much and have improved my confidence, which was one of the main reasons I went ahead with it. I highly recommend working with Sian as she is passionate about what she does, and you can feel she cares.
Why This Group Works
The Advantage Will Start January 2026
Course Structure
A 12-Week Journey into Embodied Masculinity, Erotic Power & Conscious Pleasure
Week 1: Building the Foundation for Growth Together
Awaken the part of you that knows you were made for more.
We begin by establishing the ground for transformation: safety, group agreements, and personal intention. You’ll meet the brotherhood, name your desires, and begin your shift from disconnection to embodied manhood.
Themes: Intention setting, group trust, nervous system grounding, self-awareness
Week 2: Safety, Sensation & Embodiment
Leave behind old patterns of performance, shame, and numbing.
Learn foundational somatic practices to reconnect to your body’s wisdom. This week focuses on presence, breath, and touch—laying the groundwork for lasting erotic vitality and nervous system resilience.
Themes: Somatic awareness, consent with self, breathwork, erotic mindfulness
Week 3: Masculinity, Power, Shame & Building Resilience
Face what’s been buried. Reclaim what’s truly yours.
We explore the shadows of masculinity: shame, fear, domination, withdrawal—and uncover the power of embodied resilience. You’ll learn how to be with difficult emotions and erotic disconnection without collapse or escape.
Themes: Shadow work, emotional processing, redefining strength, compassionate inquiry
Week 4: Learn New Tools for Sexual Self-Development
Transform your sexuality into a conscious, joyful practice.
We break from unconscious routines (like habitual porn use or mechanical masturbation) and replace them with conscious self-pleasure rituals that build stamina, increase sensation, and heighten your pleasure potential.
We break from unconscious routines (like habitual porn use or mechanical masturbation) and replace them with conscious self-pleasure rituals that build stamina, increase sensation, and heighten your pleasure potential.
Themes: Self-pleasure mastery, erotic mapping, arousal control, energetic touch
Week 5: Redefining Manhood, Connection & Community
You're not meant to do this alone.
This week invites deeper sharing, brotherhood, and reflection. You’ll explore what it means to be part of a healthy male community and redefine manhood in a way that’s emotionally intelligent, powerful, present and unique to you.
Themes: Vulnerability, group process, masculine leadership, connection
This week invites deeper sharing, brotherhood, and reflection. You’ll explore what it means to be part of a healthy male community and redefine manhood in a way that’s emotionally intelligent, powerful, present and unique to you.
Themes: Vulnerability, group process, masculine leadership, connection
Week 6: Reconnect with Your Sexual Sovereignty
Step into your authentic erotic power.
Integrate everything you’ve learned into a felt experience of sexual sovereignty. We explore your core erotic theme, expand orgasmic capacity, and anchor your sexuality in presence, integrity, and choice.
Themes: Erotic identity, sovereignty, tantric embodiment, expanded orgasm
Integrate everything you’ve learned into a felt experience of sexual sovereignty. We explore your core erotic theme, expand orgasmic capacity, and anchor your sexuality in presence, integrity, and choice.
Themes: Erotic identity, sovereignty, tantric embodiment, expanded orgasm
Week 7: Living as a Sexually Sovereign Man
Bring your mastery into the world.
Now that you’ve reclaimed your sexual power, how do you live it? This week focuses on integration: relationships, dating, communication, and boundary-setting; so that your erotic mastery becomes a way of life.
Themes: Integration, relational leadership, erotic communication, boundaries
Now that you’ve reclaimed your sexual power, how do you live it? This week focuses on integration: relationships, dating, communication, and boundary-setting; so that your erotic mastery becomes a way of life.
Themes: Integration, relational leadership, erotic communication, boundaries
Week 8: A Celebration Ritual of Your Unique Manhood
You’ve done the work. Now anchor it with sacred witness.
We close with a ritual of celebration, honouring your journey and declaring your next chapter. Step forward as the man you’ve become, sexually sovereign, emotionally present, and fully alive.
Themes: Celebration, ritual, commitment, embodied visioning
We close with a ritual of celebration, honouring your journey and declaring your next chapter. Step forward as the man you’ve become, sexually sovereign, emotionally present, and fully alive.
Themes: Celebration, ritual, commitment, embodied visioning
Week 5: Redefining Manhood, Connection & Community
You're not meant to do this alone.
This week invites deeper sharing, brotherhood, and reflection. You’ll explore what it means to be part of a healthy male community and redefine manhood in a way that’s emotionally intelligent, powerful, present and unique to you.
Themes: Vulnerability, group process, masculine leadership, connection
This week invites deeper sharing, brotherhood, and reflection. You’ll explore what it means to be part of a healthy male community and redefine manhood in a way that’s emotionally intelligent, powerful, present and unique to you.
Themes: Vulnerability, group process, masculine leadership, connection
Week 6: Reconnect with Your Sexual Sovereignty
Step into your authentic erotic power.
Integrate everything you’ve learned into a felt experience of sexual sovereignty. We explore your core erotic theme, expand orgasmic capacity, and anchor your sexuality in presence, integrity, and choice.
Themes: Erotic identity, sovereignty, tantric embodiment, expanded orgasm
Integrate everything you’ve learned into a felt experience of sexual sovereignty. We explore your core erotic theme, expand orgasmic capacity, and anchor your sexuality in presence, integrity, and choice.
Themes: Erotic identity, sovereignty, tantric embodiment, expanded orgasm
Week 7: Living as a Sexually Sovereign Man
Bring your mastery into the world.
Now that you’ve reclaimed your sexual power, how do you live it? This week focuses on integration: relationships, dating, communication, and boundary-setting; so that your erotic mastery becomes a way of life.
Themes: Integration, relational leadership, erotic communication, boundaries
Now that you’ve reclaimed your sexual power, how do you live it? This week focuses on integration: relationships, dating, communication, and boundary-setting; so that your erotic mastery becomes a way of life.
Themes: Integration, relational leadership, erotic communication, boundaries
Week 8: A Celebration Ritual of Your Unique Manhood
You’ve done the work. Now anchor it with sacred witness.
We close with a ritual of celebration, honouring your journey and declaring your next chapter. Step forward as the man you’ve become, sexually sovereign, emotionally present, and fully alive.
Themes: Celebration, ritual, commitment, embodied visioning
We close with a ritual of celebration, honouring your journey and declaring your next chapter. Step forward as the man you’ve become, sexually sovereign, emotionally present, and fully alive.
Themes: Celebration, ritual, commitment, embodied visioning
Step into brotherhood.
Step into sexual mastery.
Step into knowing more of yourself.
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